Many visit these sites every day. There are plenty of good things about social media — but also many risks and things kids and teens should avoid.
Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to you. Struggle suggests resistance and the problem with food is that it never puts up much of a fight.
It just sits there and lets me eat it all, which is quite passive-aggressive of food. Food really just gets used by me as a way to numb myself when I get anxious. Second best, for me, is a carb and sugar-induced coma.
We overeat because it works. Not in the long run, of course. Inherently, I do not think that social media is any more dangerous than Rice Krispies. If you are the type who can flirt with Facebook and General Mills and a glass of chardonnay without landing yourself in the mental hospital -- well, congrats, really.
Consider this an opportunity to delve into the mind of someone less fortunate. I went on an Internet fast recently -- I spent 40 days without logging on to anything. Here is what I learned about how I had allowed social media to change me over the years. Social media had transformed me into an input junkie.
Without social media, I experienced the same restless anxiety I felt while detoxing from alcohol. I was twitchy and fidgety. During every un-filled moment, I felt the urge to "check" something -- anything.
I had become unable to just sit with myself. So, the Internet has become my enabler. It keeps me from stillness and discomfort, and this keeps me from growing. Pema Chodron said, "So even if the hot loneliness is there, and for 1.
I realized that for me, posting is like asking the world -- do you "like" me? Am I special enough? Am I funny enough, deep enough, smart enough, successful enough, love-able enough? How much do you like my opinion about this, that, and every other thing?
Social media lured me toward shallow and rigid thinking. In order to navigate the Internet world, we learn to make things more black-and-white than they are in order to fit our thoughts into status updates and blog comments.
When I was detoxing from social media, I realized that I was thinking in status updates.
It seemed I had trained my brain to translate everything I experienced throughout the day into characters or less. Everything complex became simple, everything beautiful became ordinary, everything three-dimensional quickly became just two. A week passed before I stopped automatically translating every indescribable moment, sunset or conversation with my kids into two sentences.
I had to learn to stop shoving life into tweets and just let things be wild and big again. Social media threatened my only source of real peace and joy, which is gratitude. Choosing to live my life out on social media meant that I was never truly present because as soon as a great moment presented itself to me, I jumped right out of it.
My brain said, Well, this is something remarkable, and then leaped immediately to:This makes social media a special sort of confluence of risk, trend, danger, and intrigue for those (or an age of “those”) that struggle to see the big picture.
The video’s kind of corny–but kind of creepy as well. It was the latest in a string of disturbing incidents involving young people and social media. Amy Joyner, 16, of Delaware, died last week after being beaten in her high-school bathroom.
They will consistently press the boundaries and take risks, some with serious consequences. The Internet, particularly social media, is another outlet for possible downfall.
When it comes to technology and teens normally the dangerous things that come to . Teens' night-time use of social media 'risks harming mental health' Read more It’s becoming more and more obvious how the pressures of social media disproportionately affect teenage girls.
Social media is a huge part of our lives and can be dangerous when not understood. Find out more to protect and help your teens understand. 8 Dangers of Social Media We’re Not Willing to Admit It's time to get real. by Neal Samudre; April 19, 4 minute read K Shares.
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When I posed a question the other day about possibly leaving social media, I got a response that shocked me. People said it was risky—dangerous even. .